Blang,
which is a minority group with a long history, mainly lives in some areas of
Xishuangbanna, Lincang and Simao, Southwest China's Yunnan Province.
Blang has her own spoken language, but she hasn't her own written language.
Some of Blang people know the Chinese, Dai and Wa languages. Most of them
believe in Hinayana Buddhism. The purpose of the Hinayana practicer is to attain
Individual Enlightenment rather than Enlightenment as a Bodhisattva who works
for the Enlightenment of all sentient Beings, as is the goal in other forms of
Buddhism such as Mahayana.
Blang people mainly engage in agriculture and rice is their main crop. In
addition, they are good at growing tea. Puer tea, which is well known at home
and abroad, is mainly grown by Blang people in the mountainous areas there.
There are several taboos in Blang people's life. A pedestrian must avoid
brushing against others in the street and striding over the legs of a person who
is sitting. It is forbidden for a person to lean against or fasten a horse to a
middle pole in the courtyard. People must take off their shoes before entering a
Buddhist temple and are forbidden to smoke and touch the shoulders and the top
of the head of the Buddha or Buddhist monks in the temple.
Courtship
Blang men and women are very free in their love and marriage, and are usually
supported by their families and relatives. Men often visit women in groups or
alone at night. As the moon rises, a group of lads, wearing their new clothes
and holding their string instruments, go to the bamboo building where the young
women live in. After dressing and grooming themselves, the women will light the
fire and open the door to welcome the lads as early as possible. By saying
humorous words and singing beautiful songs, the lads try to attract a woman. The
women show their affections to their sweethearts by responding with singing and
offering cigarettes and tea.
Flowers–Lovers'
Matchmaker
In some areas of the Blang ethnic group, after being in love for a period of
time, the man will propose to the woman by sending her flowers. For the first
several times, the woman will accept the flowers, which the man picked up on the
hill, but she'll give him no reply, with the purpose of confirming his affection
to her. If the man keeps on sending her flowers, she will begin to trust him and
then wear the most beautiful one on her head, meaning that she has accepted the
man. Then the man will tell his parents about his earning her approval. They
then send a matchmaker with a pack of tea and cigarettes to the woman's home and
propose marriage. Usually her parents will approve the marriage.
Two or Three Wedding Ceremonies
The wedding ceremony is distinctive as it is held two or three times. The
first one is held after their engagement. The bride is taken to the groom's home
to hold the string-tying ceremony. Then the couple return to their own homes
separately. The bride won't be accepted as the daughter-in-law until the second
ceremony is held. And at the third ceremony the groom treats the villagers,
which is usually held after their baby is born.
First Three Years after Marriage
There is a traditional custom that the man lives in his father-in-law's home
with his wife at night and returns to his own parents' home to work at daytime
for three years after marriage. And three years later, the woman moves to her
husband's family on an auspicious day.
Simple Divorce Procedure
During the time that the man lives in his father-in-law's, either of the
couple can propose divorce if their affection alienates and the their parents or
relatives fail to mediate between the husband and the wife. The procedure is
very simple. A testifier is invited to cut a piece of rod wax, whose ends are
held by each of them, with a knife, and the two pieces of rod wax are their
evidence of divorce. After that, their marriage comes to an end.
(Source: chinaculture.com.cn/Translated by womenofchina.cn)